The long awaited closure of my beloved Sister Edie was received on the recent conviction, for the heinous and brutal murder by her estranged husband.
Long Awaited Closure
So, now that the trial is over – it is time to move on. But, not forget. For me, this horrible event took place on Monday, November 16, 2015. To read more about this horrible tragedy; be sure to visit my Monday Edie post.
When this trial came to a close, it was with a sigh of relief. Not only did my Sister Heidi and I get bad colds; but in the days following the murder conviction, I’ve had many sleepless nights.
Edie’s estranged husband was found guilty of second degree murder; and received a sentence of life with eligibility for parole in 22 years.
So, if you’re wondering why he didn’t receive a conviction for first degree – it came down to questions about premeditation. Since mental illness is a huge issue; there needs to be much more done to decrease the risk of someone committing a violent crime. To read more, check out my Mental Health Awareness Month post.
As taxing as the last three plus years has been; I feel I’ve had some long awaited closure to this horrible nightmare. In fact, there were things that were brought up in the trial that no one knew about. To learn about someone fighting back in the last seconds of their life was as hard to hear; as when I first saw Edie at the hospital.
Long Awaited Closure – Future
As for the future, I’m slowly trying to put back the pieces. Not a day goes by where I don’t think about Edie.
In conclusion, I want to focus my energy on health, happiness and love. In my opinion, I don’t want to continue to focus on the dysfunction and negativity. Of course, it is important to live your life in the moment. By living each day as Edie is still with me helps. Of course, she really is in so many ways.
Although the trial and sentencing is over, there may be future hearings I will need to attend. But by remembering Edie for her love and strength – will help me move on knowing justice was served.
As always, I welcome your comments.
Losing a sister must be the most painful thing as I have two sisters as well the thought of the loss of one of them at such a young age feels incomprehensible to me. You have suffered so much already it was hard for me to see you have to relive all the details 3 years later at the trial but I am glad that justice was served. Stay strong your beautiful sister Edie stays with you forever in your heart.
Rose,
Thank you for being there for me and my family during the trial. Your support and friendship meant a lot to me as this has been one of the worst things I’ve ever encountered in my life.
Love,
Lynne
Lynne,
I can’t begin to imagine what you’ve been through. Please know I am always here and trying to get closure from this helps you to continue to heal.
Love,
Jessica
Jessica,
It has been a rough road for me and my family. I’m happy to put the trial behind and focus on staying positive.
Love
Lynne
Lynne,
I can’t imagine what you had to go through and continue. Everyday is a challenge. But just know with support and love you will continue to honor her and we are always here for you.
Love
Jess
Losing someone closest to us is such a journey. Especially in such a tragic state. I hope you and the family come to peace with the verdict and continue to strive for closure. Know we’re always here.
Love
Jess
Jessica,
Thanks for your kind words. They really mean a lot to me.
Love
Lynne